Friday, October 16, 2009

What is more important: inner or outer?

The answer for the question "which is more important between the outer appearance and inner essences of people" is depending on what kind situation we are in, and what type partner that we are looking for; if we want to date someone or find a hot-girlfriend for a short-term relationship, of course, the outer appearance would be the more important. But what if we are looking for someone for a long-term relationship? In this kind case, the people who have the good inner essences would be better; because the people who have good inner essences will treat you with all of their heart in the future, and you would never need to worry they will betray you some day as long as you still love her.

In today's society,  the inner essences and the otuer appearance both have the positive and negative affects and impacts. People who have the nice outer appearance can give a very good first-impact to the others, and has a good outer appearance can lead to a good start point for a new relationship development. But sometime when the outer appearance became too "attractive" then that might affraid some people; when we saw a peroson who has opposite gender from ourselves, and the person is extremely pretty or handsome, then that might be very difficult for us to talk to them, because we don't want to say anything wrong and leave that hot-person with a negative impression about ourselves. And the person who have the nice inner essences and don't have a good outer appearance normally won't able to give a nice impression for the others at the first time, but this kind person's inner essences can be dicovered we after interacted with them after a while.

The story "Beauty and the Beast" is an example that showing the inner essences is more important than the outer appearance, and in the story Beast's inner essences beats his outter appearance; At the first time Beauty saw Beast she really got terrified by his appearance, but after a while Beast treated Beauty with all his heart and did all he might to accomplish Beauty's wishes, the Beauty discovered his inner essences and felt Beast is even better than the people who has the normal huamn appearance, and she felt in-love with Beast because she knows Beast is the true lover she been looking for.

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